Well it seemed by their wording that it was ready to ship and all that was needed was my address, which i had given already. I've been told that they couldnt AFFORD shipping that i had PAID for. I've been told that THAT was the problem, not the miscarriage.

If they had not been so rude then i would have been much more sympathetic. Much more.

As I said, i posted for advice on how to handle this. Yes i was rude, but i do not want to play the guilt game. This is business, therefore, no matter how sad it may be, that was none of my business and there was no need for them to be rude regardless of what was going on in their life.