-Language may be a factor. What you took to be rudeness could be due to English not being his first language (I assume.) You do not have that same excuse for your tone (again, I assume.)
-What difference does it make that it was 3 am? It wouldn't have been 3 am for him, and besides, there was nothing forcing you to check your messages at 3 am.
-Him asking you months later was a point of courtesy, not rudeness. It would have been ruder if he had bothered you about it a week after you sent it, not a reasonable time like months later.
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-Language may be a factor. What you took to be rudeness could be due to English not being his first language (I assume.) You do not have that same excuse for your tone (again, I assume.)
-What difference does it make that it was 3 am? It wouldn't have been 3 am for him, and besides, there was nothing forcing you to check your messages at 3 am.
-Him asking you months later was a point of courtesy, not rudeness. It would have been ruder if he had bothered you about it a week after you sent it, not a reasonable time like months later.