I try to reply to my comments when i get them (else i tend to forget) and despite me getting grawr over it (my fault i have a tempter, and it shows, i apologise for that) I probably read more into it than I should have. It just grated on me a little that he wouldnt bother to check the post office and that he was "paying for wind" is what i read as him thinking i scammed him.

But here nor there and my initial fury aside I did try to do the right thing by offering a refund but Im still very leary of such.

(and i apologise again for the frog thing)