agreed, i just dont want to seem like a jerk or insenstive or think "all (insert nationality, orientation, race here) people are (insert sterotype here)" etc. I am not like that. and I did my best not to have the filenames shown for that reason. I just needed a filename i could easily remember and that was it. I never called him that to his face but at the same time never saw it as a slur either. But yes this has been a very informative experiece and im taking it with a grain of salt instead of reacting super emotional to every criticism to my character. You live, you learn.

I try to be nice and accepting to everyone, and i pride myself on my ability to HAVE interntional relations. But my friends are getting chewed on next i see them for not informing me that "frog" was much more than just a playful jibe. AFFECTIONATE chewing i might add but chewed on all the same. :p