Well you say 'accept art', but you're assuming she'd actually do it. Who knows? And if you do get the art, are you going to be able to enjoy it?
It's so weird to me that the moment someone screws her over when they don't pay, it's a huge deal, but if she does it, it's different and there's always reasons why it's okay?? Theft is theft is theft.
Wait until you're a little less stressed and have a clear head, then look into it. Lots of places will at least hear a summary of your case and talk to you about it for free. I personally would absolutely not want the art and would be demanding a refund. You were taken advantage of, you owe her nothing, never forget that you're not the bad guy here, no matter what she says. You're also not the only one. Maybe if there were actual consequences that she couldn't ignore, she would understand this was serious.
I'm just baffled that someone can have thousands of dollars of unrequited money and have no remorse whatsoever, and she doesn't seem to get that that's why people are always on her case. You don't have a large group of mostly unrelated people like AB (because despite what she seems to think, we aren't a hivemind) and have them all have the same opinion because they just want to be jerks for no reason. How can anyone logically think that? It doesn't make any sense. But I'd better stop ranting, sorry, haha. It's just not something I can fathom, being in this position. The guilt would be crushing, and I'd be doing everything I could to fix it.
I would like nothing more than to be able to say Starfinder has changed. I really would.
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Date: 2014-03-18 12:41 am (UTC)It's so weird to me that the moment someone screws her over when they don't pay, it's a huge deal, but if she does it, it's different and there's always reasons why it's okay?? Theft is theft is theft.
Wait until you're a little less stressed and have a clear head, then look into it. Lots of places will at least hear a summary of your case and talk to you about it for free. I personally would absolutely not want the art and would be demanding a refund. You were taken advantage of, you owe her nothing, never forget that you're not the bad guy here, no matter what she says. You're also not the only one. Maybe if there were actual consequences that she couldn't ignore, she would understand this was serious.
I'm just baffled that someone can have thousands of dollars of unrequited money and have no remorse whatsoever, and she doesn't seem to get that that's why people are always on her case. You don't have a large group of mostly unrelated people like AB (because despite what she seems to think, we aren't a hivemind) and have them all have the same opinion because they just want to be jerks for no reason. How can anyone logically think that? It doesn't make any sense. But I'd better stop ranting, sorry, haha. It's just not something I can fathom, being in this position. The guilt would be crushing, and I'd be doing everything I could to fix it.
I would like nothing more than to be able to say Starfinder has changed. I really would.