The issue has been resolved :)
Aug. 3rd, 2008 11:34 amI got into contact with beeejaay recently about the commission after she saw the journal on here and she has apologized and sent me my commission at last :) Thank you so much everyone for all your support :D
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Date: 2008-08-04 01:57 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-08-04 01:59 am (UTC)WHAT. Ugh. That's... not good at all. D: I know Beeejaay commissioned me once several years ago, and i was under the impression she was good to work with. Too bad... :/
Off topic question: Is your avatar a ferret? who's the artist? I love it xD
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Date: 2008-08-04 02:49 am (UTC)Re: Wow...
Date: 2008-08-04 02:54 am (UTC)still here...
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Date: 2008-08-04 03:48 am (UTC)Preahps I'm just feeling like devil's advocate tonight, but that is kind of what I can see happening from her side of the table.
I can kind of see how things could have been handled a little better on both fronts
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Date: 2008-08-04 05:05 am (UTC)I'm sorry...but that's bait-and-switch and it's lame, no matter how nice a person Beeejay is.
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Date: 2008-08-04 05:46 am (UTC)Can you give us a timeline of when you pinged her for updates? (like x times the first week of May 08, x the next, x between such date and such other date) Constructing a timeline might better illustrate whether she's been ignoring you or if you really are being a bit of a pest.
As for the "okay i can't do this, you really need to stfu" thing. I almost spit my drink out when I read that, lol. But seriously, folks don't usually say that out of nowhere, unprovoked. Do you have the chat log of the conversation leading up to the outburst? It might be that you stepped over a line at some point, however good your intentions were.
Also, I was under the impression you waited 7 weeks since you got your last response from Beee, but another commenter is interpreting it as 7 weeks for the entire duration of the transaction. Again, dates would be a good thing to have here. Was it 7 weeks since you've heard from her last, or 7 weeks since she first agreed to do the commission?
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Date: 2008-08-04 06:04 am (UTC)And yeah, basic timeline would be nice, the original post is a bit vague.
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Date: 2008-08-04 07:22 am (UTC)Well let's see, if the tale is completely correct, first off the artist lied about the time frame which is a major no-no. Seven weeks isn't the whole amount, it's been seven weeks since they last heard anything I believe. Offering the artist reference is hardly "critical" of her artistic process and the abuse in return would be unacceptable from any would be professional. There's little evidence that the artist has done 'loads of work' or 'do-overs' apart from OC crashing and that's why sensible people save regularly.
I think you got a hold of the wrong end of the stick when it comes to the commissioner here.
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Date: 2008-08-04 07:23 am (UTC)Yeah, completely unacceptable behaviour, leaving information out in order to secure a job, telling the commissioner to STFU, not working to a promised deadline. I don't blame you for being upset.
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Date: 2008-08-04 07:37 am (UTC)It's good to play devil's advocate some times, and look at both sides of an argument, but I think in this situation, the artist is most definitely at fault.
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Date: 2008-08-04 07:54 am (UTC)Hmm, yeah, reading your logs... I must admit that you went a little bit overboard with the contact at several points, I think I'd be irked at any commissioner who tried to talk to me as much as you were sometimes. You might want to tone it down a bit for future reference.
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Date: 2008-08-04 08:20 am (UTC)I do agree with lilenth that you did seem a little chatty, but at the same time, she said say in the beginning that she wanted to talk and be friends sort of. You did ask about the commission quite frequently, so maybe tone that down a bit.
Also, about the stfu comment. I can't understand the context it's in at all. You seemed up set by it after she said it, yet right afterwards, she's fine and cheery.
Also, the 'someone-else-on-someone's-screen-name' is also so fishy. Whether it's genuine or not I will say.
I really don't know anymore. What appeared to be a clear case of fault is now a little blurry. I suppose all that can be said now is 'the plot thickens'.
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Date: 2008-08-04 08:46 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-08-04 09:01 am (UTC)Too often, at some points you were messaging her everyday; in particular one day you messaged her on no less than three occasions. That's a bit much even if you are anxious, it can make artists put art off more, they shouldn't but it happens.
Fair enough she obviously indicated that she didn't mind being friendly, but not all artists are that friendly, some simply want the references, brief and occasional feedback on the piece.
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Date: 2008-08-04 01:05 pm (UTC)As for the STFU part, that's appalling.
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Date: 2008-08-04 03:33 pm (UTC)And this artist's reputation looks to be pretty much in jeopardy. P:
I used to chat with Beeej quite a lot. Never commissioned her, though. I don't commission many people. :C
But yah, that STFU comment made my jaw drop. No matter WHAT a commissioner was saying to me, I might ask them to back off, but I wouldn't tell them in such a...way...
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Date: 2008-08-05 12:29 am (UTC)Though you (zooty) do seem pesty! You just seem to have an excitable personality. It wasn't something for her to say something that harsh over, but I think she was within right to be at least annoyed since you poked her 3 times in a day at one point. As Lilenth has said, you do hover around quite a lot in a few places.
Thank you for posting the logs! That gave a few dates and gave everyone a better grasp of what's going on between you two. Sounds like the transaction fouling up was from a little miscommunication on both sides. Though I'd say she's more at fault than anything. Even though you might have messaged her enough to be a "pestering," you did not do so rudely, and that's no reason to blow you off as a client!
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Date: 2008-08-05 05:59 am (UTC)WTF??
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