So, looks like I need to clear a lot of stuff up. For starters, I stopped commenting on this post because it was becoming extremely stressful to get into every single last person's request. Now that certain portions have been brought to my attention, I feel like I can properly address as much as I can. First off, The reason why I only selected particular points in my conversations with this builder is because the vast majority of our conversations were of me trying to cheer her up when she was feeling down. Having multiple instances of such event would have been pointless to show. I only wanted to show material relevant to the post. Next, the reason why I never asked for the refund before is because I truly felt bad for this builder. She constantly told me what was going on and how she was hurting for business. However, as I noticed that she constantly took on more and more business and pushed my commission further back, I became upset over that. With all due respect, she should've taken care of her previous commissions before taking on more.
Now the reason for asking for the refund so suddenly, was due to the fact that I had been waiting for 8 months at this point. No matter what she says, It had been 8 months of waiting by the time August came around. I have proof of that statement. In addition, just in case this may have been addressed, the reason why her profile picture was grayed out on the screen shots is because that profile had been flagged off in the past, but my PM's with her remained. I still have every single last message she ever sent to me on there.
Lastly, I never really agreed to only accepting the 30% refund back (Which by the way I never got). She only gave me that option and nothing else what so ever. So far, I have had no communication from her, no sign of ever seeing my money, or any amount of money at all. No matter what, this is going to keep dragging on forever. I gave the evidence, I said my peace, but the fact of the matter is, no matter what, it's going to be near impossible for anyone to properly explain anything without the other one contradicting all statements. All I can say is that I'm being honest, I'm not trying to manipulate anyone, and I'm just hurt by this whole ordeal.
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Date: 2011-10-05 08:18 am (UTC)Now the reason for asking for the refund so suddenly, was due to the fact that I had been waiting for 8 months at this point. No matter what she says, It had been 8 months of waiting by the time August came around. I have proof of that statement. In addition, just in case this may have been addressed, the reason why her profile picture was grayed out on the screen shots is because that profile had been flagged off in the past, but my PM's with her remained. I still have every single last message she ever sent to me on there.
Lastly, I never really agreed to only accepting the 30% refund back (Which by the way I never got). She only gave me that option and nothing else what so ever. So far, I have had no communication from her, no sign of ever seeing my money, or any amount of money at all. No matter what, this is going to keep dragging on forever. I gave the evidence, I said my peace, but the fact of the matter is, no matter what, it's going to be near impossible for anyone to properly explain anything without the other one contradicting all statements. All I can say is that I'm being honest, I'm not trying to manipulate anyone, and I'm just hurt by this whole ordeal.