I was the one to make a journal; I was stressed and made a quick journal noting to people that I didn't appreciate being gossiped to about people I'm close friends with. I deleted it when I realized that it could be misconstrued to be a drama hook.
When I questioned whether she would be okay with using Carrot's slots for the reference sheet auction she'd offered (which I'd won), she responded with anger and defensiveness,(this was during a livestream which I eventually left. Unfortunately I didn't save the log.) stating that she'd offered that auction for quick cash and needed the money now. I was rather taken aback, and told her that was fine (as I've been in that spot myself many a time) and that I would have been fine just paying for the reference sheet outright, I'd simply been checking to see if that was okay.
Her response of that she didn't care whether or not I wanted it was very snippy, and if I remember correctly, she even made mention of that she was "sick of dealing with me". I shrugged it off with a "Whatever, dude. It's not a big deal. We'll figure it out later." I then left the stream, well aware that she was angry and not wanting to further an already stressful situation for the both of us.
Her response was to hide my comments on the auction submission and immediately tell the next highest bidder that he'd won without questioning me on whether I actually wanted the reference sheet or not. I didn't comment, deciding it wasn't worth the stress. Shortly thereafter, she sent the note above to Carrot.
Edit: it was the auction submission, not a journal, that I'd bid on and been hidden on.
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Date: 2012-01-17 08:19 am (UTC)I was the one to make a journal; I was stressed and made a quick journal noting to people that I didn't appreciate being gossiped to about people I'm close friends with. I deleted it when I realized that it could be misconstrued to be a drama hook.
When I questioned whether she would be okay with using Carrot's slots for the reference sheet auction she'd offered (which I'd won), she responded with anger and defensiveness,(this was during a livestream which I eventually left. Unfortunately I didn't save the log.) stating that she'd offered that auction for quick cash and needed the money now. I was rather taken aback, and told her that was fine (as I've been in that spot myself many a time) and that I would have been fine just paying for the reference sheet outright, I'd simply been checking to see if that was okay.
Her response of that she didn't care whether or not I wanted it was very snippy, and if I remember correctly, she even made mention of that she was "sick of dealing with me". I shrugged it off with a "Whatever, dude. It's not a big deal. We'll figure it out later." I then left the stream, well aware that she was angry and not wanting to further an already stressful situation for the both of us.
Her response was to hide my comments on the auction submission and immediately tell the next highest bidder that he'd won without questioning me on whether I actually wanted the reference sheet or not. I didn't comment, deciding it wasn't worth the stress. Shortly thereafter, she sent the note above to Carrot.
Edit: it was the auction submission, not a journal, that I'd bid on and been hidden on.