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A user (I'll keep them unnamed for now) is claiming I owe them a commission. They refused to post a note or paypal screencap of said transaction and ended up turning to insults.
"ok let me note you then.
also i liked your art better when you were at DA.
i hate your new art its revolting and your anatomy sucks.
I just want my money back ive been waiting forever"
"I already said it. Dumbass. Try checking your owed list. "
"Wow you really art dumber than I thought you were. "
Even after asking multiple times for a paypal screencap, he refuses. He said I accepted the commission via DeviantART, and provided a username which is not mine. He keeps insisting it is me, and refuses to provide a screenshot and keeps threatening me with AB and reporting on FA. I keep asking for screencap, yet he refuses. For reference my dA account is under the username 'eatdicks' and I do not owe any commissions on it at all. I have also only owned one paypal, which I got when I joined FA, and I can have people back this up as well due to repeat commissions who had commissioned me back then. As of now he said he is noting me, but yet I have nothing.
I'm afraid to block him and have him go to the FA mods as they aren't really the best as looking in to things, and I don't want to be branded as a scammer because they didn't look in to it.
In all honesty he just seems like the kind of guy to not stop, no matter what, and I'm really tempted to just send him money, if it's just a small amount, to get him off my back.
What should I do?
EDIT - He has yet to note me, and posted rude comments on my ID. I have opened a TT for harassment.
"ok let me note you then.
also i liked your art better when you were at DA.
i hate your new art its revolting and your anatomy sucks.
I just want my money back ive been waiting forever"
"I already said it. Dumbass. Try checking your owed list. "
"Wow you really art dumber than I thought you were. "
Even after asking multiple times for a paypal screencap, he refuses. He said I accepted the commission via DeviantART, and provided a username which is not mine. He keeps insisting it is me, and refuses to provide a screenshot and keeps threatening me with AB and reporting on FA. I keep asking for screencap, yet he refuses. For reference my dA account is under the username 'eatdicks' and I do not owe any commissions on it at all. I have also only owned one paypal, which I got when I joined FA, and I can have people back this up as well due to repeat commissions who had commissioned me back then. As of now he said he is noting me, but yet I have nothing.
I'm afraid to block him and have him go to the FA mods as they aren't really the best as looking in to things, and I don't want to be branded as a scammer because they didn't look in to it.
In all honesty he just seems like the kind of guy to not stop, no matter what, and I'm really tempted to just send him money, if it's just a small amount, to get him off my back.
What should I do?
EDIT - He has yet to note me, and posted rude comments on my ID. I have opened a TT for harassment.
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Date: 2013-06-05 11:51 pm (UTC)If an AB is posted here, you kinda need proof, and seeing as he is unwilling to give it to you, he is not gonna give it to us.
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Date: 2013-06-05 11:56 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2013-06-05 11:58 pm (UTC)It sounds like a really rude person, possibly trying to bully you into paying something you don't owe at all, and if you buckle it will give the go ahead for him to try the same on other artists :/
I get why you don't want to block them, but if they don't post any proof, the FA would have no reason to ban you - if you are worried maybe drop a mod a note about the user? maybe they have gotten more note about the same user even.
AB I wouldn't worry too much about, as if he can't provide any proof.
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Date: 2013-06-06 12:02 am (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2013-06-06 12:11 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2013-06-06 12:14 am (UTC)'Neer had told me before it was okay to note mods for question like that. Guess he was wrong?
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Date: 2013-06-06 12:26 am (UTC)I would really recommend blocking him and then forgetting about him. The admins will come to you in order to clear things up if they need to. If he won't provide you with a screencap, he's not going to provide them with one either.
Edited to fix typo.
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Date: 2013-06-06 01:06 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2013-06-06 01:04 am (UTC)You put in a TT and blocked, correct? After that, it's just a waiting game for when a mod picks up the ticket, unfortunately :/
former-FA Mod here! I hope someone gets to it soon, but until then, just forget the guy IMO
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Date: 2013-06-06 02:49 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2013-06-06 03:46 am (UTC)If you really think it's worth it to see if he has any proof, that's your prerogative, but since he hasn't been anything but aggressive, I wouldn't give him the chance to harass me further, were I in the same place.
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Date: 2013-06-06 12:02 am (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2013-06-06 03:10 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2013-06-07 03:06 pm (UTC)It's pretty clear this guy is most likely just attempting to swindle the OP, though.
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Date: 2013-06-06 04:08 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2013-06-06 05:27 am (UTC)-- that "cease and desist" note is not really necessary but can come in handy, just make it brief and blunt. No promises or long explanations, just a simple "you have failed to provide evidence of any transaction between us, and I have no record or recollection of one. Do not contact me further." & block.
-- maybe consider making a full ab post in case this person is doing this to others. I don't think you need to worry about their accusations if you've done due dilligence to figure them out, as you've said above.
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Date: 2013-06-06 02:35 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2013-06-06 05:33 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2013-06-06 06:15 am (UTC)Between his attitude, lack of proof, user name and demands. I think he is just harassing you for he fun of it (and hoping to possibly get something out of it.) As the others said, i'd just block and forget :)
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Date: 2013-06-06 06:16 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2013-06-06 07:52 am (UTC)Basically yeah, adding it all up together its way too sketchy, tell him to either pony up the proof or he's being blocked and reported to the mods. After that just wait for them to get around to it unfortunately, I know the speed depends mostly on the individual mod its sent to and how busy they are. :/
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Date: 2013-06-06 04:56 pm (UTC)Let him know via note that you are not interested in interacting with him further unless he has proof. Don't send them money, don't respond to their comments unless they can give you solid proof you owe them something. If they continue harassing you, I would block them. You've already opened a TT so you've got yourself covered there.
Personally, I would like to know the name of this person, so I can avoid them. Even if they did pay you, their comments are appalling and completely uncalled for.
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Date: 2013-06-06 05:12 pm (UTC)Someone I know has dealt with this exact thing, I'll see if I can remember who it was.
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Date: 2013-06-07 04:04 pm (UTC)Thing is, they DIDN'T. No money was ever sent to me from this guy. The account they linked isn't mine, as I said in the post.
I'm not sure if he even commissioned the original account. It's like he just goes to furry artist a and says they are furry artist b and demands money.
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Date: 2013-06-07 06:00 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2013-06-07 07:36 pm (UTC)The person's behavior seems very erratic, I would like to mention again that it'd e helpful to make a beware about them.
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Date: 2013-06-06 05:38 pm (UTC)Either way he has no reason or right to treat you like this. If I were you I'd give him an ultimatum; either provide proof of said commission or leave me alone. If he keeps acting like this, you're entirely entitled to make an A_B post about him.
I for one would like to know who it is so I can block them, so I'm hoping you'll make a beware post. This guy sounds like a scammer and a bully.
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Date: 2013-06-08 02:26 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2013-06-09 06:56 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2013-06-10 07:21 pm (UTC)Sadly my TT has gone un answered. I hope they get tired of it and just leave.
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Date: 2013-06-11 12:37 am (UTC)Late to this party
Date: 2013-07-14 06:19 am (UTC)Re: Late to this party
Date: 2013-07-15 09:40 pm (UTC)