Vance Update
Jul. 21st, 2010 07:33 pmI'm really ticked off now. Not only does this person back out of an auction that went to nearly $700, money I had a great many good uses for, and an action that landed me in financial hot water, but he ignored the last note I sent him and has continued on to start bidding on other auctions.

I have sent him another note today, notifying him that I caught his activity on furbuy and that he still has a contractual obligation to pay me for the auction he won. In the first post I made about him, he had claimed that he only meant to bid up to $600, and I have told him that I am willing to accept that. But it is absolutely unacceptable for him to leave me hanging, to ignore me and the money he owes me, and to then bid on other auctions. I'm not sure if he's bid on other things besides what I've shown here, but it wouldn't surprise me.
I am perfectly willing to have this matter resolved, and not have any hard feelings, if this person would just fulfill his obligation to pay me and be done with it. I'm not a petty person, but I can't just let it slide when someone is directly screwing me over. If anyone notices him bidding on other auctions, please make note of it here in the comments.
UDATE: Jurann got back to me after I noted him and informed me that Vance's furbuy account has been suspended until Vance can explain his behavior and make some sign of good faith in some form to show that he intends to take care of this. I'll update again when I know more. Thus far, I am not showing that he has read my FA notes from yesterday yet, so I'm waiting for his response.
UPDATE 2: I got a reply from Vance, basically saying he was going to "expose" me, claiming I released him from his obligations and that I'm harassing him, which I never did. This was my last note to him, the one which he never responded to. Clearly, I was not releasing him from obligation, and was instead trying to work with him. He has now blocked me from his FA page, so that I can not send him any further messages.
UPDATE 3: So, since Vance knew he couldn't back up his claims that I released him from his obligation to pay me, he apparently tried, again, to lie his way out of it, and failed miserably. So he can either pay up, or his Furbuy account will remain suspended. It's probably a lost cause by now, but I will update if anything else happens. Definitely avoid this person as a commissioner/bidder, and if you do decide to risk it, demand full payment up front and save all your notes.

I have sent him another note today, notifying him that I caught his activity on furbuy and that he still has a contractual obligation to pay me for the auction he won. In the first post I made about him, he had claimed that he only meant to bid up to $600, and I have told him that I am willing to accept that. But it is absolutely unacceptable for him to leave me hanging, to ignore me and the money he owes me, and to then bid on other auctions. I'm not sure if he's bid on other things besides what I've shown here, but it wouldn't surprise me.
I am perfectly willing to have this matter resolved, and not have any hard feelings, if this person would just fulfill his obligation to pay me and be done with it. I'm not a petty person, but I can't just let it slide when someone is directly screwing me over. If anyone notices him bidding on other auctions, please make note of it here in the comments.
UDATE: Jurann got back to me after I noted him and informed me that Vance's furbuy account has been suspended until Vance can explain his behavior and make some sign of good faith in some form to show that he intends to take care of this. I'll update again when I know more. Thus far, I am not showing that he has read my FA notes from yesterday yet, so I'm waiting for his response.
UPDATE 2: I got a reply from Vance, basically saying he was going to "expose" me, claiming I released him from his obligations and that I'm harassing him, which I never did. This was my last note to him, the one which he never responded to. Clearly, I was not releasing him from obligation, and was instead trying to work with him. He has now blocked me from his FA page, so that I can not send him any further messages.
UPDATE 3: So, since Vance knew he couldn't back up his claims that I released him from his obligation to pay me, he apparently tried, again, to lie his way out of it, and failed miserably. So he can either pay up, or his Furbuy account will remain suspended. It's probably a lost cause by now, but I will update if anything else happens. Definitely avoid this person as a commissioner/bidder, and if you do decide to risk it, demand full payment up front and save all your notes.
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Date: 2010-07-22 12:43 am (UTC)http://www.furbuy.com/cgi/bidhist.cgi?id=1017914
I happened to click this earlier in the week and went..hey wasn't that the guy who didn't pay on AB? And sure enough.
Maybe Furbuy admins can help step in on this one and at least get him banned for abuse of some sort?
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Date: 2010-07-22 01:07 am (UTC)Thank you for including the link! Just makes it that much worse that he's bidding on several things.
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Date: 2010-07-22 01:18 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-07-22 01:12 am (UTC)That really blows. My one caution would be if he's forced to pay for the suit he bid on, watch out that he doesn't try to pull some BS about the suit being damaged, not made as advertised, etc. etc. If he's flaking on an auction obligation, I wouldn't put it past him to try and whine/contest with Paypal/get his money back even if he DOES go through with it.
I'm sorry hun, I hate when people pull this shit. Bid only if you have the cash to do so.
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Date: 2010-07-22 01:17 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-07-22 01:13 am (UTC)I clicked on skulldog's link to to Furbuy and was like "Hm, I think I'll check my auctions."
He bid on one of mine. ( http://www.furbuy.com/auctions/1017962.html NSFW)
GRRR I hope he plans on paying me. While my auction is nowhere near the cost of yours, I still don't want to get the runaround.
I hope Jurann can do something for you. Have you thought about taking him to court to get the money? I think that qualifies for small claims court but I don't know; I'm bad with law stuff.
Good luck to you though!
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Date: 2010-07-22 01:20 am (UTC)If you're worried, drop him an email and say you're worried about his -1 rating, and ask if he's really serious. In harm in bringing it up to the guy.
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Date: 2010-07-22 11:04 am (UTC)(whoop, n/m, misread!)
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Date: 2010-07-22 05:00 pm (UTC)He got into a bidding war with someone on my auction and it's up to $54 now.
I sent him a note on FA and got a response back saying that he was indeed serious, that he had about $50 in hand and would have the rest when he got paid this week. Despite saying I did not want to discuss the situation, he still insisted on explaining his innocence, saying this time that he accidentally bid too high and e-mailed CarnivalDog several times to reset the auction, but that CarnivalDog never got the e-mails. So yeah, that's his story.
From the way he wrote, I think he's bidding on all these auctions so people will leave good feedback and show that he's a good bidder. At least, that's what it sounded like to me.
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Date: 2010-07-22 05:08 pm (UTC)The guy is just full of lies, and I truly regret the fact that he made that one last bid that topped over the other bidder. If he hadn't pulled that BS, I could have still pulled in $650 from a bidder whose FA account is full of commissioned art, so I was assured that the guy would have paid up and there wouldn't be any problems. All because of one last stupid bid by Vance, I was screwed out of it all. I honestly would not trust this guy to pay up. If he does, great, but be prepared to be put through the ringer.
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Date: 2010-07-22 10:39 pm (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2010-07-22 11:16 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-07-22 10:53 pm (UTC)"Its a long story with that seller. Short version, I hit the wrong thing and put in a bid way too high for me to afford. I tried to tell her multiple times to restart the auction but she claims I never emailed her at all, and tries to blame me for having financial issues in real life. I have messages from her in which she states she'll let it go, then a day later posts somethinmg slanderous somewhere."
That was what he wrote (despite me telling him I didn't want to discuss the issue, I just wanted to know he could pay).
I've decided to close the auction and relist it if the other bidder doesn't want it. I've e-mailed them and will hopefully hear back from them soon. But until then, the auction is getting closed.
ARGH this is beyond frustrating. I can only imagine how frustrating this must be for you though. I know you said in the last post that you needed the money for bills. That's kind of the spot I'm in now, too.
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Date: 2010-07-22 01:25 am (UTC)So far though it's been you he's deadbeated on. If he's done the same to skulldog and aubreywretched, then I think it's time to worry about his habits.
Did you at least offer the spot to the second highest bidder? :O
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Date: 2010-07-22 11:03 am (UTC)Looks like that's what was done, too, go Jurann!
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Date: 2010-07-22 02:56 am (UTC)they fav a crapload of stuff thinking they will just get one or two, and they get scared like hell (and of course try to bail at all costs ) when they won more that they can pay..
very annoying.
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Date: 2010-07-22 05:45 am (UTC)I don't understand why people don't have a savings fund to dip into incase of things like being put into hospital or having a car accident...whatever; animal gets sick....blehhhh
I hope you get something resloved out of this mess.
Question though if say you write this off are you able to restart this auction???
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Date: 2010-07-22 05:59 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-07-22 08:06 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-07-22 10:17 am (UTC)What. So is it like a disorder that makes him bid on things and he can't control it? I don't get it. One does not bid 600-700$ and then say "I can't afford it."
He thinks by "let go" you mean let him off the 600$ because he can't afford it right now, he doesn't realize it means let him off 100$.
I hope things get resolved for you ]: That's a lot of money.
Thanks, hope you have a whatever day!!!
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Date: 2010-07-22 10:29 am (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2010-07-22 04:07 pm (UTC)Anyway, the guy's a liar, he's been caught lying at least twice now about what happened with his bidding - first he said that a proxy system dicked him out of $75 (and even when the seller offered to reduce the price by $75 he wouldn't complete his obligation). Which was clearly a lie; bidding records are PUBLIC so it doesn't even take an admin to figure that out! Then yesterday he sent me some sob story note about how he entered an extra zero in his bid my mistake - which doesn't fly because FurBuy does not allow you to place a bid more than ten times the current bid price, for this very reason! (One extra zero = ten times the intended bid price, and a bid must be higher than the current bid, so logic saves the day for such errors...)
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Date: 2010-07-22 04:22 pm (UTC)That's... odd. Is he addicted to bidding or something?
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Date: 2010-07-22 04:54 pm (UTC)I for one am glad he's just gone. I wouldn't be comfortable using FurBuy again with a dude like that around.
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Date: 2010-07-22 05:17 pm (UTC)However, some people DO get addicted to auction bidding, it becomes a sort of gambling for some people, and they have a hard time not bidding, even if they don't have the money to pay. I don't think this guy's been around long enough to establish that kind of pattern though, more likely it was a first time user's "eyes bigger than stomach" issue. If it weren't for the fact that he's been caught lying on multiple occasions now, I would have been willing to give him a second chance...
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Date: 2010-07-25 04:31 am (UTC)