you had no chance, even from the beginning? nobody here automatically decided you and your friends were evil people unworthy of a fair shake just because of one post by grygon.
i totally empathize with you in the sense that you want to defend your friend, especially since she is temporarily banned from here because of her conduct. but at the end of the day, a_b is no one's personal army. if skullgrrl had been rational and retained control of herself and posted her side of the story, the people here are nobody's pets and would have been able to piece together their own opinions.
as it stands, i'm not even 100% sure of what exactly went on, i have no idea what skullgrrl's story is, and i honestly do not care. her conduct and reaction and totally out of hand behaviour toward people who left advice or questions on her fhb thread is what ultimately coloured my opinion of her. if we hypothetically find out grygon is lying about everything under the sun, i would still never do business with skullgrrl. and that is of her own creation.
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Date: 2011-09-06 06:26 pm (UTC)i totally empathize with you in the sense that you want to defend your friend, especially since she is temporarily banned from here because of her conduct. but at the end of the day, a_b is no one's personal army. if skullgrrl had been rational and retained control of herself and posted her side of the story, the people here are nobody's pets and would have been able to piece together their own opinions.
as it stands, i'm not even 100% sure of what exactly went on, i have no idea what skullgrrl's story is, and i honestly do not care. her conduct and reaction and totally out of hand behaviour toward people who left advice or questions on her fhb thread is what ultimately coloured my opinion of her. if we hypothetically find out grygon is lying about everything under the sun, i would still never do business with skullgrrl. and that is of her own creation.