I...really don't know what you're talking about. o.O I posted a message on taxidermy.net to simply state the experiences I've had with Skullgrrl (that I have never had any problems with her as a buyer) without talking about anyone else except Grygon and how I was still going to get her stuff to her. I know one of our group messaged at least one person in regard to something they posted, but I've been told by that person that they weren't actually rude...just misinformed.
The rest are, as far as I'm aware, completely uninterested in flaming anyone, even Grygon (I'd be really surprised if they were. They're not that kind of people). Any messages we actually posted were in our fan group to express sympathy for her issues with Grygon, who many of us have met or know in real life and have had issues with ourselves.
I myself am trying to connect with her so she can get her side of the trade, which both she and Darien agreed on as the way they wished the transaction to be finished. And though I'm regretting agreeing to it now due to Grygon's constant dragging of my friends (via the group) into this issue, I will still make sure it goes through.
Ans...I'd really appreciate it if people would stop judging us based on so little evidence. And don't tell me "then you shouldn't be friends with such a bitch" because honestly...that's just sad. That's the best you can come up with? She's a good person who snapped. Whoop dee doo. If I actually thought she meant to dole out bodily harm to Grygon, I'd be out of there, but she's just mad. People get mad. It happens. It's not necessarily okay for it to happen, but if we really care about a person, we tend to smack them upside the head, forgive, and move on instead of abandoning them at the first sign of trouble.
I think she's got enough in the way of punishment for this anyways, considering how many negative opinions she's garnered.
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Date: 2011-09-06 05:50 pm (UTC)The rest are, as far as I'm aware, completely uninterested in flaming anyone, even Grygon (I'd be really surprised if they were. They're not that kind of people). Any messages we actually posted were in our fan group to express sympathy for her issues with Grygon, who many of us have met or know in real life and have had issues with ourselves.
I myself am trying to connect with her so she can get her side of the trade, which both she and Darien agreed on as the way they wished the transaction to be finished. And though I'm regretting agreeing to it now due to Grygon's constant dragging of my friends (via the group) into this issue, I will still make sure it goes through.
Ans...I'd really appreciate it if people would stop judging us based on so little evidence. And don't tell me "then you shouldn't be friends with such a bitch" because honestly...that's just sad. That's the best you can come up with? She's a good person who snapped. Whoop dee doo. If I actually thought she meant to dole out bodily harm to Grygon, I'd be out of there, but she's just mad. People get mad. It happens. It's not necessarily okay for it to happen, but if we really care about a person, we tend to smack them upside the head, forgive, and move on instead of abandoning them at the first sign of trouble.
I think she's got enough in the way of punishment for this anyways, considering how many negative opinions she's garnered.