The back and forth was because she never told me she had started. I told her my preference that I would like to have the image done, but thought about it briefly. She said she could stream it if I wanted, but I didn't get back to her because I was quite busy. Finally I said that I would like the refund, but she had already begun work, therefore I told her she could finish and I would just accept it.
Everybody knows about the refsheet auction. I am in agreement that it should not have been done. I wasn't even AWARE that was what she was trying to do at the time. She has admitted that was wrong. However, that does not excuse over a year of no updates and refusing to do the initial work commissioned.
You understand the "chibi" situation wrong. The original commission WAS for my girlfriend and I at the time. We did break up. I never did say to hold back. That is not a thing that occurred.
EDIT: Also, her note box was not flooded. That is a large manipulation of the truth. I sent two notes, one saying that I would like the refund. The second confirming that she had already started and that she could just go ahead and complete since she had begun work and I didn't feel right making her stop.
EDIT 2: The notes in question:
Me asking for the refund, not realizing she had begun drawing it in a stream already, as I was not informed of it. ( http://i1214.photobucket.com/albums/cc496/Carrotwolf/Sinevidence9.png )
My response to confirm she could continue after learning of her stream, but she didn't have to if she just wanted to refund me. ( http://i1214.photobucket.com/albums/cc496/Carrotwolf/sinevidence11.png )
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Re: well..
Date: 2012-01-20 10:12 pm (UTC)The back and forth was because she never told me she had started. I told her my preference that I would like to have the image done, but thought about it briefly. She said she could stream it if I wanted, but I didn't get back to her because I was quite busy. Finally I said that I would like the refund, but she had already begun work, therefore I told her she could finish and I would just accept it.
Everybody knows about the refsheet auction. I am in agreement that it should not have been done. I wasn't even AWARE that was what she was trying to do at the time. She has admitted that was wrong. However, that does not excuse over a year of no updates and refusing to do the initial work commissioned.
You understand the "chibi" situation wrong. The original commission WAS for my girlfriend and I at the time. We did break up. I never did say to hold back. That is not a thing that occurred.
EDIT: Also, her note box was not flooded. That is a large manipulation of the truth. I sent two notes, one saying that I would like the refund. The second confirming that she had already started and that she could just go ahead and complete since she had begun work and I didn't feel right making her stop.
EDIT 2: The notes in question:
Me asking for the refund, not realizing she had begun drawing it in a stream already, as I was not informed of it. ( http://i1214.photobucket.com/albums/cc496/Carrotwolf/Sinevidence9.png )
My response to confirm she could continue after learning of her stream, but she didn't have to if she just wanted to refund me. ( http://i1214.photobucket.com/albums/cc496/Carrotwolf/sinevidence11.png )
Sin.'s response ( http://i1214.photobucket.com/albums/cc496/Carrotwolf/sinevidence10.png )
The issue was not the completion of the picture. The issue was the length of time it took with no communication, no progress, and ultimately no care.